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Post Pentecostal women and muslim women.....both in bondage? caseyleejones
I was at a restaurant yesterday with my wife. I noticed a pentecostal(oneness or apostolic) group sitting together. When I looked at the men, they looked sharp and very stylish. They had stylish haircuts and clothes. I looked at the females of the group......long hair...a few buns... with no style and dresses...somewhat outdated....

The first thought that came to my mind was how close the two groups are in their subjection of women to a certain style but they themselves are very much like every other man. Muslim women wear a headdress and the required clothing...........the same as our oneness group....

I do see oneness as our brothers and sisters in the Lord......but how did we ever to that place in christianity?
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Post Re: Pentecostal women and muslim women.....both in bondage? c6thplayer1
caseyleejones wrote:
I was at a restaurant yesterday with my wife. I noticed a pentecostal(oneness or apostolic) group sitting together. When I looked at the men, they looked sharp and very stylish. They had stylish haircuts and clothes. I looked at the females of the group......long hair...a few buns... with no style and dresses...somewhat outdated....

The first thought that came to my mind was how close the two groups are in their subjection of women to a certain style but they themselves are very much like every other man. Muslim women wear a headdress and the required clothing...........the same as our oneness group....

I do see oneness as our brothers and sisters in the Lord......but how did we ever to that place in christianity?


I'm not sure we got there casey , I believe most of us just evolved from that.
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Post Dave Dorsey
Very interesting observation. It'd be one thing if both genders dressed very modestly, like the Amish. But you're right, in many cases there is a big difference between the genders, just like in Islam. Very interesting observation. [Insert Acts Pun Here]
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Post Quiet Wyatt
As one who has had many friends over the years who were either Oneness or very conservative, old-time trinitarian Pentecostal, it has been my observation that the Pentecostal brand of strict dress codes and female submission, while having its problems and pitfalls to be sure, at its heart, differs quite markedly from that which is outwardly similar in Islam. [Insert Acts Pun Here]
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Post Eddie Robbins
It is similar in that both are legalism. Every right that a woman has, she had to fight for it. Acts-pert Poster
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Post Quiet Wyatt
While I have never held to the dress-code standards of Oneness Pentecostalism, I have known many personally as friends who do hold to those standards, both Oneness and Trinitarian. There may of course be exceptions, but I have never known a Oneness lady to act or speak as if she were beaten into submission and was somehow forced to obey the outward dress, hair and no-make-up standards. Usually Oneness women are actually quite preachy about their personal convictions on these matters.

Also, you would NEVER hear of a fundamental Muslim woman being a preacher to a congregation of men and women, but that kind of thing happens fairly often among Pentecostals.

You would also never hear of a Pentecostal husband murdering his wife or daughter and being justified in doing so by his religion. In Islam, the women are basically little more than property.
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How does being unfashionable equal 'bondage'?
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Post Old Time Country Preacher
Link wrote:
How does being unfashionable equal 'bondage'?






I promise, pastor, I'll let ma hair grow out real long this time. Just please don't turn at serpent loose on me.
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Post Dave Dorsey
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How does being unfashionable equal 'bondage'?

It doesn't. But when one gender is strongly encouraged or mandated to be unfashionable and the other gender is allowed to dress in fashionable clothes and groom themselves in modern ways, it indicates a potential power imbalance that is not godly in origin.

There are plenty of ways to be modest and still dress in modern, fashionable clothes and/or have a current hairstyle. If I am allowed to do all of those things but my wife is forced to dress and groom herself as if she is living in the 1700s, it is not unreasonable to say I am forcing her into a form of bondage.
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Post Quiet Wyatt
The teaching of the classic Holiness movement regarding women's hair and dress was not that they necessarily ought to try to look unfashionable as such, but that modesty should be their aim, and that women should not cut their hair, while men should never have long hair (see 1 Cor. 11:2-16). Never cutting one's hair really does tend to limit one's options in hairstyle.

Some who hold to a modest, conservative standard of dress and hair would say they are free from worrying about keeping up with all the latest fashions, and that those who concern themselves so much with looking fashionable are the ones who are in bondage to virtual cultural idolatry.


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Post Quiet Wyatt
Also, women who decide to leave conservative 'clothesline' Pentecostalism for another faith or no faith at all are not in danger of being executed for apostasy, unlike fundamentalist Islam. [Insert Acts Pun Here]
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Post Dave Dorsey
Quiet Wyatt wrote:
Some who hold to a modest, conservative standard of dress and hair would say they are free from worrying about keeping up with all the latest fashions, and that those who concern themselves so much with looking fashionable are the ones who are in bondage to virtual cultural idolatry.

I don't look down on anyone who holds this view. It certainly makes sense. The only point I am making is in regard to a situation where a wife holds this view for herself but a man does not hold the same view for himself.
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Post I have a very negative view of these folks wayne
I'm not sure how it was in your area but in our area these folks are very condescending and judgmental.
I have had some bad experiences with these folks and when I see them, my guard goes up.
We had a gentleman in our church that got saved. He had been a heavy drinker, done time in jail, the list goes on and on. He finally gave his heart to God and one Sunday we were baptizing him. I baptized him in the name of the Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit. His sister who was one of these folks made her way to me after the service and questioned me why I didn't say "Holy Ghost" . I told her Ghost and Spirit have the same meaning in this sense. She gave me a smug look and a hmmm and walked away. This man told me, she was part of the reason he never wanted to get saved.

God forgive me for not liking these folks. :
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Post Nature Boy Florida
Only morons would equate the two.

C'mon guys - just because you hated it is no reason to compare it to jihadists.

Not remotely the same.

One husband - one wife.
No face coverings.
No bombings for Jesus.
No nine year olds getting married (although some holiness were young - not Muhammedesque young.
Women were not property.
No genital mutilations.

I could go on forever.

No comparison.
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Post Eddie Robbins
Of course, they aren't equal. What is similar is that religious men made up rules to place on women. Acts-pert Poster
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Post Nature Boy Florida
Eddie Robbins wrote:
Of course, they aren't equal. What is similar is that religious men made up rules to place on women.


Did only religious men make it up? The Old Testament is written by men?

Muslims and Jews use the Old Testament. Did it teach that woman is the head of man?

These men took their cues from the BIBLE - even nature itself after the curse - they weren't made up in a vacuum.

Only with the New Testament did we understand that killing all sin - wiping out all sin in the camp - would only end up killing all of us.

Only in the New Testament did we learn that there is neither male nor female at the Cross.

In the Old Testament - there is a lot of male and female differentiation - even so much that a part of the curse was:

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Genesis 3:16 Then he said to the woman,

“I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,
and in pain you will give birth.
And you will desire to control your husband,
but he will rule over you.[c]”[url][/url]

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Post Dave Dorsey
The OP wasn't equating Oneness with Islam, good grief. It was suggesting they may share similarities in this one aspect.

But leave it to someone on acts to bury any possibility of mature discussion by sanctimoniously beating a straw man to a pulp.

You sure showed those folks who were saying Oneness and Islam are the same. All zero of them.
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Post you beat me to it...... caseyleejones
Dave Dorsey wrote:
The OP wasn't equating Oneness with Islam, good grief. It was suggesting they may share similarities in this one aspect.

But leave it to someone on acts to bury any possibility of mature discussion by sanctimoniously beating a straw man to a pulp.

You sure showed those folks who were saying Oneness and Islam are the same. All zero of them.


...what he said....
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Post Quiet Wyatt
If a person comes to have a personal conviction about something, is he, by definition, in bondage? [Insert Acts Pun Here]
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Post Dave Dorsey
Quiet Wyatt wrote:
If a person comes to have a personal conviction about something, is he, by definition, in bondage?

Surely not. It's possible that conviction could place him in bondage, but that certainly doesn't seem like any kind of absolute.

But again, if I have a conviction for my wife only (no modern hair or apparel) but not for me (modern hair and fashionable dress attire)...
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