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Quiet Wyatt |
As a pastor, I never bring up an item for consideration by the church that I don't have a definite desire to see pass. (Why would I even bring it up unless I wanted it to pass?) I also do my very best, as pastor, to give sound reasoning for the church to support the item. Thus far I have never been voted down when I have carefully presented the case for the prayerful consideration of the congregation. The President of the United States, who also is under term limit, and who, as Trump is now realizing, cannot be a dictator as such, has no problem giving his ideas concerning legislation he would like for Congress to pass. One has to wonder why the EC would not want to do the same thing as any good pastor, leader, governor, or president already does.
Now I fully realize that the EC may not agree 100% on a particular item, but it seems to me that these brothers, whom we all love and respect highly enough to elect them to the highest positions in our organization, would most likely have some well-reasoned views as to issues that they have chosen to place on the agenda for consideration. We know that a majority of the EC had to want a particular item to be on the agenda, or it simply would not be.
I personally think it would be great if these highly respected leaders would add their input to the debate/discussion (which, I would hazard to guess, would be a very well-informed, very well-reasoned addition to the discussion). It is not clear to me why they would not want to do such. Even if some gave speeches pro and some gave speeches con, that would still only help to better clarify the issue for the body. |
[Insert Acts Pun Here] Posts: 12817 7/20/17 9:35 am
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Methocostal |
Wayne, I applaud you for your wisdom in handling complex diverse issues in your Church. I don't know how old you are, but I sense wisdom, regardless of age.
| wayne wrote: | I'm a little confused on why we have to go around judging everyone. Like I said previously, there is room at the table for everyone. I've told our church many times that we need people on all rungs of the ladder. People who know nothing about the church, those who are learning, those who have been at it for a while and those who are mature and teaching. Whatever happened to letting the Word and Spirit convict the heart of people.
I've learned it's tiring to focus too much on what people are or are not doing. As a Pastor, I advise our people to pray and seek God's face about what to do or not to do. I will gladly give my opinion but I also tell them to back up what I am telling them with the Word. |
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Friendly Face Posts: 496 7/20/17 11:26 am
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Methocostal |
Wyatt, I wonder the same thing about drinking in moderation, perhaps moderation is too broad, rather I should state it as having a drink or two. I totally understand the problems with excessive drinking and never taking a drink will ensure one will not be an alcoholic. However, I do side with those that assert the early Church did drink wine.
I really wonder how many people the Church (my background is COGOP, but it applies to COG as well) that gave up because the man made standards were too high for them to achieve. A more gray area would be smoking or casual drinking. Again, I wonder how many totally gave up because they could see no problem with smoking or drinking in moderation.
While we can argue with tremendous empirical data on the dangers of smoking, why do we not also assert the importance of proper diet and exercise to keep the "temple" Holy. That couldn't possibly be because we have more fat preachers than fit ones? I truly see no difference in tobacco and gluttony, except the Bible does specifically refer to gluttony. Yet that little bit of Bible is virtually universally ignored. (Unfortunately, I am not practicing what I "preach" well enough in regards to health).
Personally, I have no desire to smoke, but I do have some Wine and Jack Daniel's in my fridge. I had a serving of Jack Daniels the day I moved in my new home because I was sitting on the front porch and pretending to be a Tennessee Hillbilly by sippin on the "receipe". That was several months ago and I hadn't had any for maybe a year before then. I also have not had Wine since my daughter's wedding almost a year ago. Nevertheless, I do have it in my home. Am I a horrible sinner? Maybe, but I would ask how many on this Board have cough medicine with liquor or codeine in their home? Is God setting up there looking to see if I am taking it for medicinal purposes versus relaxation? How many that would accuse me of sinning for my rare use of alchol have just had their 2nd or 3rd piece of Sister Jones' wonderful apple pie You get the point. Wasn't there a Bible verse about a splinter in my eye, versus a pole in your eye Wyatt, I didn't me YOU when I made those references, rather "we" on the Board.
Just my thoughts from the Pew.
| Quiet Wyatt wrote: | As I tried to explain to CP while he was here, there really can be no problem with people having personal convictions which they feel the Spirit has led them to have. We all have them to some degree or another. However, it must always be kept distinctly in mind that such convictions or personal applications of scriptural holiness are not in and of themselves what scriptural holiness is.
I may feel personally convicted that smoking is contrary to loving God supremely and my neighbor as myself (holiness), but that does not mean that I can necessarily quote a verse that essentially says, "Thou shalt not smoke." So I cannot be dogmatic and say that smoking is in and of itself a sin, since Scripture does not say so, though I can validly make the personal application in my own life that it would be a sin for me to smoke, since it would violate my conscience to do so.
I find this principle to be crucial, distinguishing between scriptural holiness itself (loving God and man appropriately) and any personal application of scriptural holiness in one's life. |
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Friendly Face Posts: 496 7/20/17 11:42 am
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Acts Enthusiast Posts: 1274 7/24/17 7:46 am
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Re: why judgmental |
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| wayne wrote: | | Methocostal wrote: | Wayne, I applaud you for your wisdom in handling complex diverse issues in your Church. I don't know how old you are, but I sense wisdom, regardless of age.
| wayne wrote: | I'm a little confused on why we have to go around judging everyone. Like I said previously, there is room at the table for everyone. I've told our church many times that we need people on all rungs of the ladder. People who know nothing about the church, those who are learning, those who have been at it for a while and those who are mature and teaching. Whatever happened to letting the Word and Spirit convict the heart of people.
I've learned it's tiring to focus too much on what people are or are not doing. As a Pastor, I advise our people to pray and seek God's face about what to do or not to do. I will gladly give my opinion but I also tell them to back up what I am telling them with the Word. |
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Methocostal,
First time anyone has ever said I have wisdom. Sorry, for the delay in response we were in Pigeon Forge for a men's retreat(great time).
Unfortunately, when it comes to alcoholic beverages I have a very negative history with this. Generations of my family have been bound to this demon and have paid the consequences and have inflicted pain on many others due to these spirits. If you are taking a little wine according to what Paul told Timothy: Don't drink only water. You ought to drink a little wine for the sake of your stomach because you are sick so often....then okay but anything else is too much.
With that said, I want alcoholics and addicts to come to my church because I have found they have some pretty amazing testimonies when God delivers them from this addictive demon. I will not judge people because of this but I do have a difficult time being around people who have the smell of alcohol on them... my PTSD kicks in and memories of the destruction caused by this demon comes flooding back. |
Is alcohol a demon? |
Golf Cart Mafia Consigliere Posts: 3147 7/25/17 9:47 am

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Acts Enthusiast Posts: 1274 7/25/17 11:42 am
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Re: why judgmental |
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Uncle JD,
Satan has duplicated and perverted many things. When you see the destruction that I've witnessed...what else would you call it? |
Like sex? |
Golf Cart Mafia Consigliere Posts: 3147 7/25/17 12:55 pm

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Acts Enthusiast Posts: 1274 7/25/17 1:44 pm
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Re: why judgmental |
UncleJD |
| wayne wrote: | | UncleJD wrote: | | wayne wrote: |
Uncle JD,
Satan has duplicated and perverted many things. When you see the destruction that I've witnessed...what else would you call it? |
Like sex? |
yep, when the devil is allowed to control it. |
Agreed, so both can be abused even though they were created to be enjoyed within proper bounds. You see what I'm getting at right? I agree the devil uses both (and other things) that in themselves are not evil, but can be twisted to take advantage of human weakness. |
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Acts Enthusiast Posts: 1274 7/25/17 2:34 pm
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Re: why judgmental |
UncleJD |
| wayne wrote: |
To me sex is meant to be enjoyed inside of marriage. Alcohol is meant to be used as medicine but to be "enjoyed", my discernment will not allow me to agree with that part.
Uncle JD,
Is there room for the consumption of alcohol in scripture, the answer is yes but I can't see where we should make it part of our daily/weekly lifestyle. |
There are a lot more scriptural references to its enjoyment than its medicinal value. I would agree that I don't think it needs to be a "daily" lifestyle (or a "lifestyle" at all). But I tend to agree with C.S. Lewis that Islam, not Christianity is the religion of 'teetotalism'. In fact, I think its good to revisit what he said in Mere Christianity about what we call "temperance" today as opposed to what it really means.
| CS Lewis wrote: | Temperance is, unfortunately, one of those words that has changed its meaning. It now usually means teetotalism. But in the days when the second Cardinal virtue was christened 'Temperance', it meant nothing of the sort. Temperance referred not specially to drink, but to all pleasures; and it meant not abstaining, but going the right length and no further. It is a mistake to think that Christians ought all to be teetotallers; Mohammedanism, not Christianity, is the teetotal religion. Of course it may be the duty of a particular Christian, or of any Christian, at a particular time, to abstain from strong drink, either because he is the sort of man who cannot drink at all without drinking too much, or because he wants to give the money to the poor, or because he is with people who are inclined to drunkenness and must not encourage them by drinking himself. But the whole point is that he is abstaining, for a good reason, from something which he does not condemn and which he likes to see other people enjoying. One of the marks of a certain type of bad man is that he cannot give up a thing himself without wanting everyone else to give it up. That is not the Christian way. An individual Christian may see fit to give up all sorts of things for special reasons -- marriage or meat, or beer, or the cinema; but the moment he starts saying the things are bad in themselves, or looking down his nose at other people who do use them, he has taken the wrong turning.
One great piece of mischief has been done by the modem restriction of the word Temperance to the question of drink. It helps people to forget that you can be just as intemperate about lots of other things. A man who makes his golf or his motor bicycle the centre of his life, or a woman who devotes all her thoughts to clothes or bridge or her dog, is being just as 'intemperate' as someone who gets drunk every evening. Of course, it does not show on the outside so easily: bridge-mania or golf-mania do not make you fall down in the middle of the road. But God is not deceived by externals |
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Acts Enthusiast Posts: 1274 7/25/17 3:25 pm
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UncleJD |
| wayne wrote: |
Uncle JD,
With all due respect, you nor anyone else will change my mind on this subject. I will not judge you on this topic but neither will I tell you it's okay. I do not and will never understand the need for alcohol in ministers especially Holy Ghost filled ministers . Jesus left us the Holy Spirit to do and overcome things we cannot. The Holy Spirit will get me whatever I need.
I am of the conviction that if I am down, angry, sick, whatever - I can go to God and receive what I need. Do I take medicine? Yes. Will I take Nyquil when I have the flu and cannot sleep? Yes. But, I cannot overcome my conviction that anything more than medicinal use is permitted for me. |
Roger that, just trying to discuss the tough issues.  |
Golf Cart Mafia Consigliere Posts: 3147 7/25/17 3:55 pm

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Re: why judgmental |
Cojak |
| UncleJD wrote: | | wayne wrote: |
Uncle JD,
With all due respect, you nor anyone else will change my mind on this subject. I will not judge you on this topic but neither will I tell you it's okay. I do not and will never understand the need for alcohol in ministers especially Holy Ghost filled ministers . Jesus left us the Holy Spirit to do and overcome things we cannot. The Holy Spirit will get me whatever I need.
I am of the conviction that if I am down, angry, sick, whatever - I can go to God and receive what I need. Do I take medicine? Yes. Will I take Nyquil when I have the flu and cannot sleep? Yes. But, I cannot overcome my conviction that anything more than medicinal use is permitted for me. |
Roger that, just trying to discuss the tough issues.  |
Ok JD, I did smile!
That is the problem with tough issues, STRONG feelings DO exist. That is why they need to be discussed to understand WHY someone has feelings so strong they WILL not listen. Nothing wrong with that as long as someone doesn't INSIST YOU drop YOUR strong feelings. I do think there is such a thing as agreeing to disagree. I have experienced it in good friends and politics and WE HAVE NEVER CAME TO BLOWS (PHYSICALLY OR VERBALLY). It can be done with scripture, believe it or not!  _________________ Some facts but mostly just my opinion!
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Wayne,
I appreciate your conviction from a personal level and to me that's what's important. I think a personal witness of "I abstain for such-and-such reasons" is a great witness to the world. Much better than "its a sin to touch it flat out and I'm not going to discuss it no matter what scriptures you quote". I think I would have avoided some difficult times as a youngster if I'd been taught actual scripture instead of dogma. My own feeling is that for those of us who are so inclined, the more its called "sin", the more tempting it is at a certain level and age group. I'll never forget how shocked I was as an 18 year old sitting in Dr. Daffe's bible class at Lee hearing for the first time EVER that it was indeed actual wine that Jesus created at the wedding feast and NOT grape-juice "like your pastor probably taught you".
We both (and hopefully all) agree that there are many evils associated with all addictive behavior, and they are to be shunned whatever it takes. I too have seen sad situations caused by addictions and I pray that it never happens in my own family. |
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